Also available from Anna Marie Croxon ‘God Spoke to Me’
Do not weep for the ones that have walked away, do not weep for the ones that are no longer with you at this moment in time, but rejoice that they are your own flesh and blood and know that they will return someday.
Whatever has been taken away always returns, and the one who is not close to you in this moment will in time be closer. The prodigal will return renewed and restored to their present glory. No one is lost to you even though they may have deserted you in your quest to keep them contained, but remember they are your flesh and blood, and that the blood of Christ runs through their veins.
So whatever you are suffering at this moment in time, come into Christ. His loving heart will envelop your sorrow, your guilt, and your longings. Let not your sorrow be deepened by your circumstances, and but stand in love until your loved one returns with a repentant heart, know that love never dies, and that your hope for restoration should never die. Expect a miracle, expect full restoration of the soul, and expect the love of Jesus Christ to enter their heart and for the Holy Spirit to enter them also.
You are not their protector and you do not own them, somehow they have to find their way back to God and feel him in their hearts. The longing you feel will not go away until you relinquish all your fears and believe in the will of God, because my dears this situation is one that exists between them and their God and will lead them to their path of resurrection.
So today when you might be feeling lonely or sad, I say this to you. They are not your responsibility so do not carry any guilt, do not carry any distorted perceptions, know that you have done your best and now you need to leave the rest to God and his child.
You are only part of the story, and all of you have your own individual paths even though you are connected by the family blood line. But sometimes you have to let go of the ties that bind you, and allow the other soul to find their freedom of expression so they can find their own way home.
Your job is to keep close to God and pray to him, believe in him and believe in the miracle that will bring your loved one back home. Many will have become fully awakened as they progressed on their pilgrim’s journey, and slowly, step by step, they will find their way back to themselves and to Jesus who now would like to speak to you about this sensitive subject.
‘ Dearest Children of the Earth, do not think that I ignore your troubles or am ignorant of your pain and suffering. I am so aware of all of you and see everything that is happening to you, but now is a time of great illumination for mankind and sometimes suffering has to be undertaken for you to realise and see the light that resides in you as well as all others.
I know when it is a dear loved one taking this journey that it is most difficult to bear and my heart goes out to you every single day. I would ask you to come unto me during this period in your life, and I will soothe you and give you hope that your loved one will return to you.
This of course, I cannot fully guarantee, but your prayers and the prayers of your family are very powerful, and the most important lesson here is for you to hold love in your heart for the one that has departed.
Do not hold yourself responsible for their actions, because now they must follow their souls path and partake of their own resurrection. As they are part of your blood family I know it is difficult to break the ties that bind you, and in truth you do not have to do this. Hold onto your faith at the highest level, and do not judge another’s action, many of which are born out of fear of reprisal and anger. You may not fully understand the heart space of another or their inner anguish, their disgust with themselves, and their low opinion and despair. It is within this despair that they believed that it was better to leave before they did more damage to you and others.
And it is because they love you that they have taken this decision because they felt that they had let you down and were not able to match your expectation of them, so remember there are always two sides to any story and both have value.
Blaming another is not a wise move even though you might feel righteous given the circumstances, but I would implore you to only find love in your heart for this soul. Should they call on me for help I will respond most whole wholeheartedly and will attempt to bring about a softening of their heart centre, so they may come to learn how they can forgive and love themselves first and foremost.
This is the first and most important step they have to take and they are the only ones that can decide make this decision, it is not for you to try and do this for them. This is something they have learn to deal with on their own and now is not the time for you to attempt to take over the situation because you feel you know what is best for them
They are the only ones that can deal with their own situation so let them grow into their own restoration so they can find their own way in life once more. Have patience dear souls and understand they have not forgotten you nor have stopped loving you, they have only stopped loving themselves and see themselves as lost souls who nobody else can help. But I can help and that is why your prayers are so important because it keeps the love link that connects us all, and when love is present that is when solutions are found and followed.
And remember this, this situation is primarily their journey, but this is also a journey for you so you can learn more about yourself. During this time you will learn patience, faith, and you might develop much more tolerance for yourselves as well as others. When you are tolerant towards another you will be acting out of love, and will give the other person a chance to prove themselves, so we would ask you not to jump in with your judgement or any criticisms.
We understand so well that this situation is not easy for you but you do not always learn lessons when life is easy, but when troubles come you have to dig deep within and in time this will strengthen your faith and trust in me.
Dearest ones I applauded your courage and your conviction at this time of your greatest concern, and I do assure you of my presence that is within both of you, but both of you have to be willing to see the goodness in each other and not always want to be the one that believes that they are right.
So now go forth in full faith knowing I am standing at your side in the good days and the bad. Time will show you that all can come good with enough faith and trust and I know that you will able to step up to the mark at this time of your greatest challenge’, Your Lord Jesus Christ.
My dearest ones you are not alone, I know at times you wonder why this has happened to you but I can assure you that even through the dark days, and even the days when you may lose hope, we will be ever present when you have faith in us and know that we can help you.
It is one of the most challenging times when you lose a loved one whatever the circumstances, but whether they have departed to spirit or are still on the earth plane living out their incarnation, we are always here to help you through this grieving process. When you are in direct contact with spirit you are never alone and you will receive extra courage to take you through this time of your greatest testing.
Believe us when we say this because it is tempting when you are feeling so low so let your faith sink under the weight of your sorrow, and then you may never return to the love and support of the everlasting arms of the spirit world that long to support you.
All will be well, and although the journey may seem long and arduous we assure you that if you keep your faith you will cope and be able to come into a much deeper understanding of the true truth of this situation. Often it is only after the event has passed that a full realisation and wonder will come to you, and you will drop to your knees in reverence and joy as your revelation is revealed to you in all its glory.
Some will say that this was a gift from God, a gift that you would not have believed was at all possible had you not experienced the might and wonderful love of God during this time of great revelation. And so as you undertook this journey of faith you realised that you truly became a child of God, and that God was taking care of everything that was happening at that time, even if to others this appeared a disastrous situation.
You see this situation did not just affect you and your immediate family it also had a positive effect on many other people who gathered their own strength from the strength that you showed at that time. And that is the greatest lesson that was learnt, to trust God and in his mercy you were saved further suffering.
So my dearest ones this is a time for congratulations as we see how you have made this testing experience become a victory of faith, and it is unto you that we send our deepest love and admiration as you have passed this test of faith, which is the ultimate test for your love and trust in God.
When love reigns supreme is makes all crooked places straight, because the ego is dimmed and vanquished in the face of love. So love yourself, love your God and love all you meet with an open and non judgemental heart so you may express true love to all you meet, and revere yourself as you have become a true child of God, and have become in his likeness for all to see.
St. John the Baptist and Jesus Christ.Anna Marie Croxson 22nd February, 2021